Friday, January 6, 2017

Asarah B'Teves Schedule for Tzemach Tzedek

Alos Hashachar/Dawn (Beginning of Fast)                                                 5:49am

Shacharis                                                                                 8:00, 9:00, 10:00am

Mincha                                                                                                2:00, 4:25pm

Maariv and end of fast                                                                                 5:16pm

Parshas Vayigash Schedule for Tzemach Tzedek

The following is the Tzemach Tzedek schedule for Shabbos Parshas Vayigash:

Friday - ערב ש"ק

Licht Bentchen                                                                                       4:25pm

Minchah Erev Shabbos                                                                          4:40pm

Kabbolas Shabbos                                                                                 5:15pm

No Kiddush between 6:02/6:00pm - /7:00pm

שבת קודש

Rov's Chassidus Shiur                                                                           8:45am

Sof Zman Krias Shma                                                                            9:42am

Shacharis                                                                                               9:30am

Minchah Gedolah                                                                                 12:26pm

Rov's Halochoh Shiur                                                                             3:45pm

Minchah                                                                                                  4:25pm

Motzoei Shabbos/Maariv                                                                        5:30pm  

Avos U'bonim                                                                                          6:45pm

א גוטען שבת

Reminder - Avos U'bonim

Avos U'bonim this week is at 6:45 - 7:45 pm at the Tzemach Tzedek Shul - 2 Langeries Dr, Monsey. 

Mazel Tov to Schneur Silverman whose birthday is today - Erev Shabbos - and in whose honor his parents are sponsoring this weeks Avos U'bonim ! 

Yasher Ko'ach to the Niasoff family who sponsored this past Motzoei Shabbos program in honor of their twins' birthday on Zos Chanukah. 

Also, thank you to our previous weeks' sponsors - the A Lehr, D Jordan, and Rabbi Kagan families. As well, much appreciation and kudos to the N Bronstein family for sponsoring treats for many of  the Avos U'bonim programs. 

If any family wants  the Z'chus to sponsor an Avos U'bonim program in honor of a special occasion - please contact Rabbi Yisroel Shusterman at 917 282 3505

Parsha Perspective

By Rabbi Yisroel Shusterman

This week’s Parsha Perspective is dedicated by Mr. Binyomin Philipson in memory of his late mother Mrs. Ellen (Elka bas Zisel) Philipson OBM

Dedicated in memory of Leah bas Rochel OBM

King Solomon, the wisest of men, says (in his book of Kohelet (Ecclesiastes) 3:4), “There is a time to weep” which implies that there will be occasions when weeping is inappropriate. (King Solomon's exact words are "there is a time to weep and a time to laugh" which implies that there are times when other responses are called for. Clearly, life is not simply about crying or laughing.)

This week’s Torah portion of Vaigash (Berieshis [Genesis] 44:18-47:27 relates the story of Joseph's dramatic reunion with his brothers. Though he embraces them all, he reserves his deepest emotions for his only full brother, Benjamin. Joseph was separated from his brothers when Benjamin was a mere child of 8 years old, and therefore Benjamin was the only one who was not involved in the plot against Joseph. Their embrace was, indeed, an exceptional embrace:

"And he (Joseph) fell on his brother Benjamin's neck and cried, and Benjamin cried on his neck" (Genesis 45:14).

Rashi, quoting the Talmud, explains that for both brothers, their cries were, beyond the powerful feelings of the moment, nothing short of prophetic. Joseph wept over the two Temples of Jerusalem, destined for destruction, which were in the land apportioned to the tribe of Benjamin. And Benjamin cried over the Sanctuary at Shilo, located in the land apportioned to the tribe of Joseph, which would also be destroyed.

The question is why: are they each crying over the other's churban (destruction)? Why did they not cry over their own destructions?

The Lubavitcher Rebbe explains that when it comes to someone else's problem, we may be able to help but we cannot solve other people's problems. Even good friends can only do so much. We can offer generous assistance, support and the best advice in the world, but the rest is up to him or her. No matter how strenuous our efforts, there can be no guarantee that they will be successful. As hard as we may try to help, the individual alone holds the key to sort out his or her own situation.

So, if we are convinced that we have done our absolute best for the other person and have still failed to bring about a satisfactory resolution, the only thing we can do is shed a tear. We can pray for them, we can be sympathetic. Beyond that, there is really nothing else we can do. When we have tried and failed, all we can do is cry.

But when it comes to our own problems and challenges, our own churban, there we dare not settle for a good cry. We cannot afford the luxury of giving up and weeping. If it is our problem, then it is our duty to confront it again and again until we make it right. For others we can cry; but for ourselves we must act.

The Jewish leaders after the Holocaust cried bitter tears for their fallen comrades, but for themselves they did not sit and weep. They set about the task of rebuilding - and succeeded in the most inspiring, miraculous way.

When we have problems (and who doesn't?), so many of us simply moan and sigh and heave a good old-fashioned yiddishe krechtz (Jewish groan). How many times have we sighed, What can I do? And what does that leave us with? - with the moaning and groaning and nothing else. In the words of the fifth Chabad Rebbe, Rabbi Sholom DovBer of Lubavitch: "One good deed is worth more than a thousand sighs."

Leave the krechtzing for others. If it's your problem, confront it, deal with it, and work at it. You'll be surprised by the results.

(Excerpts from - by Rabbi Yossy Goldman)

May you have a meaningful and uplifting Shabbos!

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