Friday, February 27, 2015

Cheder UPK a Registration for East Ramapo Residents

Attention all parents interested in the UPK program at Cheder Chabad Preschool for the upcoming school year 2015/16 - Registration is now open for students living in the East Ramapo School District area who turn 4 before December 1st 2015

Cheder Chabad's dedicated staff create a warm and nurturing environment in which our students can thrive. Our UPK program offers a comprehensive curriculum aimed at developing the child's knowledge and love of Torah and Chassidus, as well as developing the necessary motor, perceptual, language, cognitive, social and emotionally skills for successful learning and growth as an individual.

The New York State Education department offers us a limited number of grants for eligible applicants. If you are interested in finding out more about this opportunity or wish to apply, please contact Yona Lazarus, our Preschool Director, at (845)263-7990 ext 111

The deadline for applications for the UPK grants is March 23rd 2015.

Parsha Perspective

By Rabbi Yisroel Shusterman

Many things that we do and experience require a combination of emotion and action. The absence of feeling can affect the sincerity of the action and minimize its effectiveness. For example, wishing a close friend “Mazel Tov” without a display of excitement has minimal meaning. Mechanically helping a friend in need without empathy and interest will result in incomplete support. Praying just by mouthing the words seems like a meaningless exercise.
But feelings don’t come automatically. We cannot just turn the happiness switch on, or suddenly feel love towards another person. So what do we do when we don’t feel happiness and empathy, or we feel totally uninspired and disinterested?

In this week's Torah portion Tetza've (Shmos [Exodus] 27:20-30:10), we learn that the Kohen Gadol (High Priest) had to wear elaborate clothing when serving in the Temple. These garments had to be sewn according to a very specific design, and wearing them during service was of critical importance.
The significance of these garments, explains one of the early commentaries, is based on the principle that the heart follows the actions. This means that while indeed feelings can motivate more effective action, the opposite is also true. If someone is uninspired or disinterested, but forces himself to do what is right with maximum effort, the power of the action is so strong that it will nurture and develop feelings and strong emotion.

The Kohen Gadol had an awesome responsibility. He served in the Temple, representing the entire Jewish nation, to achieve Divine atonement and blessing. This task required a strong focus and an intense sense of devotion—one which he might not naturally have felt necessarily. However, donning beautiful garments, an action that made him “look the part,” motivated, inspired and ensured that his heart and mind were in total focus and ready to do all the services the Temple needed to be done.

So if you show up to your friend’s wedding in a bad mood, just get right into the dance circle. If you hear of someone in need but feel apathetic, force yourself to run over and ask how you can help. If you don't feel like praying, grab a siddur (prayer book) and say the words carefully. Actions with effort create strong feelings. Do a good act. The heart will follow.

(Excerpts from – by Rabbi Michoel Gourarie)